Lesson 4.5 - To Kiss or Not To Kiss. It's not really a question.

Just because you pay for dinner and a movie, that does not entitle you to some lip action.

Just because you pick her up for the date, that does not entitle you to kisses.

I don't care if you brought flowers, chocolates, and a full marching band. On a first date, you are not entitled to a kiss. She's a woman, not a hooker. And even if she IS a hooker, this is a date, not her business hours.

That being said, ladies? Just because he did those things doesn't mean he wants to kiss you.

Play it by ear and feel it out. Being nervous is one thing, but there are some pretty clear signs when a person doesn't want to kiss you. Like if they lean away, or keep moving closer to the door saying "Well, I should really get going/get to bed". Let it go. Hell, you might not even get a hug (although it's kinda polite). And don't be some creeper and try to cop a feel on the first date. Show some class.